Overwhelmed by how many casual relationship sites there are that cost money? They all start out free, but then want you to upgrade and ruin your fun! Well, relax babe, variety is the spice of life ;) Take advantage of the free trials on dating sites that they offer so you can see if they are worth upgrading and spending money on! There is a reason why paid sex sites are better then free ones! Lots in fact! And I'm here to help you make sure you spend your hard earned money wisely! Here is why you want to get AT LEAST one paid dating site:
1. Better quality "extra's" such as user made videos,amateur videos, web cams, premium web cams, etc.
2. Bigger range of types of people.
3. More people with jobs!
4. Better customer service, which equals less scammers, and quicker response times to complaints about spammers and scammers.
5. Women feel more comfortable knowing men have been verified with a credit card. 


My advice? Make sure you have an email you dedicated to just your online sex website adventures...then sign up for the free trials for all of the sites after reading my quick reviews! Then, sign up for as many as you can afford. Keep your free sites, like adultspace and facebook, but if you are serious about hooking up, you will want to try these sites!

I have been using adult sex personal sites for quite awhile now so I know what I'm talking about! Being a woman gives me a bit of an advantage when it comes to reviewing sex dating sites, as a lot of the features are free to me.( I'm also not just another webmaster peddling services they don't actually use or try-rest assured, I have tried just about EVERY site on the web for personal use!) That being said, guys, there is no such thing as a free meal.  A lot of the subscriptions sites let us contact men for free BUT we don't get all the extra goodies-such as adult videos, premium chat, etc. There is also NOTHING more annoying to me then a site that promotes all kinds of wonderful features, says its free to sign in, and then you discover after you made an email and password, answered a bunch of questions, filled out a profile, etc...that you can't DO ANYTHING without upgrading and paying money! Even if you are a woman! VERY annoying, and those sites are not on my list. All of my sites are very up front that there are some features you must upgrade for, and that you are just trying it out first. I think that's fair. Trying it out is a good idea. But most of these are such well-known sites, you can be pretty safe getting a subscription first and knowing you will be happy. You definitely want to check out my link on Safe Sex though, to make sure you avoid common online dating scams first before you join ANY site!!

Ok, on to the good stuff! These are my favorite casual sex dating sites that require a paid subscription:


1. Sexy Ads
This site, by far, has the most things you can do as a free member!. It lets you get started right away chatting and sending emails-whether you are a man or woman. The chat rooms are always active too, and there are lots of cool features! You definitely want to check this one out. If you upgrade you get to chat unlimited, and get your profile featured more-which means more people to talk to and share your erotic fantasies! This one is great if you want to have tons of people to choose from! They also have members who are verified, which is extremely helpful for avoiding scammers! You definitely want to join sexyads if you are serious about meeting somebody soon!

2. www.adultfriendfinder.com:
You really can't go wrong with Adult Friend Finder. I have on more than one occasion seen men I was interested in REAL LIFE using the site. You are bound to find somebody you like on there. There is a reason why it's one of the top adult hookup sites! Many people join just out of curiosity because they see the links all over the internet, and end up staying on the site because it's so much fun, and inexpensive! While this one is a bit of tease if you don't upgrade (you can't see full profiles sometimes) you are able to chat and use the instant messenger service(at least women can!) and look around and see who is on there. So, be sure to post a clear, good  sexy picture so he'll be tempted to upgrade to contact you! Make sure to read my safe sex section to avoid Instant Message scams (if you haven't read that first, go get to it!)  Aren't email's always so awkward? I never know what to say, and it's equally annoying when I get one from a guy that just says, "What's up?" Or worse, some weird message. Not to mention if I'm not even attracted to them I don't want to craft a response. An Instant Message is is a quick way to see if someone is interested and have a REAL conversation-one step quicker to fucking in real life! Emails are so 1990's! If you still like the art of emailing, though, still go ahead....there are plenty of people who do, just make sure you put some thought into your email. They DO offer an option to mass mail out responses to lots of people. This is good for increasing your odd's because the more people you contact, the more likely you will get laid...but if there is one woman/man you are really into I would stick with making a personal message! There are varying levels of prices of membership, but most are very affordable. Your best bet is to just make a quick profile and check it out for yourself.

And don't forget to check out their sister site Alt.com which is all about bondage, and alternative sex practices! If you are into fetish, role play, bondage, and any other alternative sex you will DEFINITELY find somebody on here. I couldn't respond quick enough to all the emails I got from members!